Love Languages

I’m not gonna lie.

The past year has been really hard. Dealing with banks. Searching for homes. Changing schools. Fixing to leave the neighborhood that we love. I’ll stop there, but this year goes down as one of the most challenging of my life. Miraculously, my marriage has been strengthened despite it all.

A couple of weeks ago, I woke up to a little bowl of candy in my kitchen, with words of affirmation written on them…

The picture below shows our “number,” which has been 77 since we met 16 years ago.

(Matthew 18 ~ Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.)

That’s how we got “our” number. And we use it a lot.

Kevin’s love language is words of affirmation.

For me, I am an acts of service girl. When he taped and masked  off some cabinets  so I could paint them my love tank was filled to the brim.

 Since he’s a words of affirmation guy I got to work and wrote 80 things I love about him and attached them to candy to take to work.

We recently had the opportunity to hang out with Kevin’s fun coworkers for a work-related get-away, without kids, and one of his friends snapped a picture of us just forgetting about moving, renovating, etc. etc. etc.

Just thought I’d share an idea that can be a marriage booster! Even/especially in the midst of chaos and exhaustion.

Working on the kitchen

This is the status of our kitchen cabinets right now. I can’t wait to clear coat them this weekend and rip all the plastic and paper off! I am really happy with the creamy white color which was a custom mix.

The island had tile on either side of the sink, which Kevin and I thought was wasted storage space. So, he demo’d the tile.

And we added 2 drawers plus pull out trash and recycle bins.

Then Mama went to work!

Here is a before of the kitchen at a glance~

And now ~

 We are adding bun feet to the bottom cabinets, too.

I don’t know how long the doors will take me, but I am on the lookout for black hardware. If you see any let me know because I’m only seeing ORB, and brass.

Until next time,

 

Time for another house update!

I hope this post finds everyone well and enjoying summer!

I can’t believe the man power we’ve put into this new house. The sweat equity was way more than I bargained for. And, I’ll admit to a few tears and mini-tantrums because of how long the painting has taken me, which isn’t close to being finished. However, things are taking shape and it’s nice to compare the before and afters to see how far we’ve come.

This was Kevin’s office after tearing down tile from the walls (it was the owner’s “dog room” so they must have hosed it down or something. I surely don’t know, but was surprised there wasn’t a drain in the middle of the room).

Here is what it looked like after drywall and after replacing their “dog’s lookout gate” with a regular office door. We were glad to make it into a normal office entry. Kevin found door casings that fit perfectly.

We moved out our existing built-in office furniture from our current office and made them work in his new one. There was a lot of wood filling and patching by reconfiguring, so our solution to blend it all in was to go with a black distressed finish.  The wall color I chose was Benjamin Moore Nantucket Gray. It’s more green than gray.

Here is a close-up of the cabinet finish.

And, on Mama’s agenda tomorrow is to paint  the kitchen casings. I spend several days taping and putting plastic everywhere to avoid all the over spray. The cabinet doors can wait for now. We really want to get moved into this house, and know our list of over-achieving projects will eventually get done. We just wanted to get the biggies done first because I don’t want to live in a mess, and Chloe is a neat freak. It’s actually come in handy, but can drive a Mother crazy sometimes.

Until next time,

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